I had a bad day yesterday. First thing I did when I woke up after the necessary coffee making was check my phone. I immediately took offense to a post on Facebook. Anger welled up in me. I could feel my stomach lurch and my anxiety was a rush of overwhelming confusion. I thought this person validated me and my feelings but she doesn’t.
My first response was type a angry,angry, message. I can still see me doing it, maybe with even a superior cackle thrown in but I restrained. There are two sides of the story, maybe she feels guilty about something during my Facebook hiatus. Maybe she hates that I got sober. Who knows. Anyways, after fussing and calming myself down, I instead blocked her. She has my number, she can call if she values our friendship.
At this point I realized that I am having a mixed episode day. In bipolar world happy and sad all in one day. They don’t last as long as mania or depression but just as horrible. I had to get myself together for a foot appointment that I was dreading. Feet especially my ankles are my phobias. I got there and big sigh of relief, A God wink happened. I saw someone from my support team coming out of his appointment and I knew it was going to be ok. He hugged me and said “don’t worry he is a good guy.”
My appointment was happy, the doctor was great and only touched my ankle once. Yes, my day is now better. Thank God for the lesson but let’s go back to humorous memes about my mental issues.
Get home see that I have response about the anxiety of the foot doctor I had. It was joking but it hurt. Again, I want to angry, angry type or better yet call. Nope, this is family, calm yourself down. Stay off stupid Facebook!!!!!!
I decided to take a nap because I don’t want full mania to come on, and I haven’t been sleeping well.I slept about an hour and woke up still edgy, still invalidated and itchy to check Facebook. Pacing I started thinking, I make a joke of myself a lot. If you can’t laugh through the pain.. that thinking. If I want to be validated for my mental health maybe I should take it more seriously or why I need to make my pain funny for everyone else, note to self, future blog.
Right after this thought my husband came home. I burst into tears and was laugh crying when he asked how my appointment went. “It was the best part of my day.” Sob sob.
That evening I had somewhere to be but I was exhausted and also scared that all my emotions were going to come up and my filter would finally come off. They would have understood but it would of been my last straw to complete mania. Stayed home and isolated. My friend asked why? I responded,”that’s just me.” Maybe an issue to discuss in another blog.
I feel much better today, not a hundred percent but the anxiety is fading. Yesterday I feel I did the best I could. I did things differently, not my usual impulsive anger and that is HUGE. My God has a sense of humor. I thought my foot appointment was going to be my life lesson of the day… ha ha God ha ha.